a few words of discouragement...

i know i don't usually write in my blog, for it is a photo log of my spankings, so both Sir, and i can keep track. But there is something that is on my mind tonight that pertains to the pair of us.

Let me first say, that when Sir started taking pictures, he told me that i was to start a log of my spankings. How long, with what... etc etc... I had seen one from over his shoulder, online, so i figured i could make Him proud by putting myself on display for any, and all to see. And i know i make Him extremely proud, because He is constantly sending people to see it... and it makes me smile to know that He is proud to show me off.

Well when i got home this evening, he had told me that one of the subs on the chat that we regular yelled at him, because apparently my blog is the exact same as hers. Needless to say, i was horrified. What i put on my blog, is of my own testimonials, thoughts and feelings about spanking as a whole. And i guess she said that the pictures were the same... well *duh* how many ways can one display a warmed red ass?! i am proud of who i am, that i have somebody that cares for me enough, to give me the things that i want, and need.

It seems that it is an ongoing theme with me. i share something, or Him, and somebody gets all 'holier than though', or all high and mighty because "He doesn't know what He's doing", or because we "don't have the right kind of relationship" This has happened twice before. Either out of jealousy, or because i didn't hold out on my end of the bargain... i am so tired, of people judging U/us! If you have the address to this sight, it is because one of us thought you were mature enough to view, and knew what you were getting into, and not judge.

Again i do appologize for my lack of pictures tonight... but i really needed to get off my mind... thank you for understanding... ~tlm{TBB}